Cost
Only Gays is free to join and free to message. A voice call or a video call on the site is free. There is no subscription and no credit card, so there is no charge on a statement.
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A free dating site lets you join and message without a subscription and without a credit card. Only Gays is for adults who want to meet a man nearby. Joining is free. There is no subscription and no credit card.In short
On Only Gays, joining is free and messaging is free. A profile is for members who are signed in. A web search does not open it.
Who it may suit
Only Gays
- You want to meet a man nearby, without a subscription.
- You want a username on the profile, not your legal name.
- You want to pause the profile without deleting it.
What to check
A charge on a statement
Ask whether joining needs a card. On this site it does not. There is no subscription.
A web search
Ask whether searching the web opens a profile. Here it does not. A profile is for members who are signed in.
A photo
Ask who can open a photo. Here a person reviews an upload, a private photo stays locked, and photos stay blurred until the other member has done the age check.
A request for money
Only Gays will never ask you for money. If a member does, report the profile. They are not told that you reported them.
What we do
The profile
Other members see the username you chose, your age, your town, and the photos you chose. They do not see your surname, your address, or your workplace unless you type those in. A web search does not open the profile.
The age check
The age check is free. A person reviews the ID. Other members never see the document, and your legal name is not put on the profile. Until it is approved, you cannot message, and other members' photos stay blurred.
Photos
A person reviews an upload. One current photo of you is enough before search opens. A private photo stays locked until you share it. Until the other member has done the age check, your photos stay blurred for them.
Messages
The conversation stays on Only Gays. You do not have to reply. A message that asks for an email address or a phone number is not delivered.
Leaving
You can pause the profile. Other members cannot find it while it is paused, and you can still look. Deleting the account removes the profile and the messages you sent. Delete photos and videos first. That cannot be undone.
Frequently asked questions
Is Only Gays free?
Yes. Joining Only Gays is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription and no credit card.
Can a web search find my profile?
No. A profile on Only Gays is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it.
What if someone asks for money?
Only Gays will never ask you for money, a gift card, or a verification payment. Stop, and report the profile. They are not told that you reported them.
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