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Only Gays is free to join and free to message. These are the parts of the site, before you create an account.

It is free

Joining is free. Messaging is free. A voice call or a video call on the site is free. There is no subscription, no credit to buy, and no credit card.

How it works.

Search, then a message

Look near you and write to someone on Only Gays. You can also like a profile, flirt, or save it to come back to. The first conversation stays on the site.

Locations.

Photos

Search opens once your email is confirmed, you have added a photo, and the age check is approved. One current photo of you is enough. A person reviews it before it appears. Until the other member has done the age check, your photos stay blurred for them. A private photo stays locked until you share it.

Blurred photos. How to add or delete photos.

The age check

The age check is free. A person reviews your ID. Other members never see the document, and your legal name is not put on the profile. Until it is approved, you cannot message, and other members' photos stay blurred.

How the age check works. The Online Safety Act.

Who can see you

A profile is for members who are signed in. Searching the web does not open it. You can pause it, hide from your own town, or hide from an email address.

Safety. How to pause your profile.

If someone is a problem

Only Gays will never ask you for money. Open their profile and press Report profile. They are not told that you reported them. Block stops them finding you.

Anti-scam policy. How to block someone. FAQs.

Frequently asked questions

Is there a paid version?

No. Only Gays has no subscription and no paid tier. Joining, messaging, and calls on the site are free.

Do I have to upload a photo?

You need one photo before search opens. It is reviewed by a person. A current photo of your face is enough.

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